I’ve always lived a little out loud …on purpose… and sometimes by accident.
I was born a triplet in the 1980s.
Which means my life came with headlines before I had opinions.
Newspapers. Photos. Random adults staring.
We were called “Triple Trouble.” To this day… 😂
Born six minutes apart.
Three months early. Two identical brothers… and then there was me – the odd egg. Obviously. 😏
From day one, I learned how to hold my own.
When you grow up visible, you learn two things fast: how to stay grounded when attention shows up early…and how to take up space without apologizing for it.
Both turned out to be pretty useful life skills.
I wanted more so I left.
I learned early that I wanted more. More space. More opportunity. More stimulation than my hometown could offer.
So I left Racine, Wisconsin with about $40, a stubborn amount of ambition, and a very clear sense that my life wasn’t meant to stay small.
I headed north to Minneapolis and stayed for 25 years.
That city shaped me. I built my career there, worked with sharp people, and spent years inside high-performing, high-pressure environments, touching nearly every Fortune 500 company headquartered there.
I loved it. And I also knew when it was time to grow again.
During COVID, we made a bold, slightly spontaneous decision and moved our family to Las Vegas.
That move changed everything in the best way.
More alignment. Bigger work. Higher stakes. Better energy.
All while being a mom.
All while protecting my time.
All while building a life that actually works for us.
Where my grit came from.
I started playing sports on all-boys teams at age 5 but as I always have said, organized sports are much different than street ball. 😏
I did that not because it was adorable. Because it made me tough and honestly, I was better than 90% of them. LOL!
Competitive. Focused.
Comfortable being the only woman in the room.
Still am. Still calm. Still winning. 🏆
That edge carried me through Division I athletics in basketball and track & field – sprinting, hurdling, relays. Sports didn’t just teach me how to win.
Sports taught me how to repeat effort. How to stay composed when things get loud. And how not to panic when everyone else does.
Discipline wasn’t something I “found” later in life. It showed up early and never left.
Plot twist: there’s a whole career in here.
In the early 2000s, I earned my degree in Business Administration and Marketing Education from the University of Minnesota–Twin Cities. Go Gophers. 🐿️
But I was ready for the real world way before graduation.
While still in college, I was selling life insurance, working with investments, and flipping distressed properties – because apparently relaxing has never been my brand.
By 2005, I was running operations for a startup focused on business intelligence, data mining, and technology in the automotive space.
That’s when it clicked.
I don’t just like ideas.
I like building the systems that make ideas work.
In 2006, I moved fully into technology.
No detours. No “finding myself.” No looking back.
The part people don’t expect.
Here’s the part that tends to surprise people:
Most people online assume I make money with my body.
That this is the job.
That this is the whole story.
LOL. No.
I work across technology, product, and program leadership – inside complex platforms, high-stakes initiatives, and environments where clarity isn’t optional.
My role is always the same:
• walk into chaos
• figure out what’s actually broken
• build structure that holds
• help smart people execute without losing their minds
I translate complexity into systems that actually work – without killing creativity, momentum, or style.
Yes, you can have all three. Anyone who says otherwise just isn’t very good at what they do.
It’s called discipline but make it personal.
Around 2016, fitness stopped being something I did and became something I practiced.
Bodybuilding taught me patience. Precision. Accountability.
Training stopped being about “working out” and became about mastery.
Photography entered my life not for attention, but for documentation.
Progress. Effort. Earned moments.
Not poses.
The same discipline that built my body is the discipline that built everything else.
Because none of this was accidental.
What you see today didn’t happen overnight.
It was built rep by rep.
System by system.
Day over day. Year over year.
Discipline came first.
Confidence followed – fast but earned.
That mindset shapes everything I share here.
How I train. How I think. How I work. How I live.
And yes – I’m private. On purpose.
Access to my depth is a privilege, not a right.
But if you’re here, you’re probably curious enough to notice there’s more going on than meets the eye.
P.S. More is coming.
This site is evolving in real time while I juggle work, kids, training, and real life – so things shift, grow, and sharpen constantly.
If you want to see how my mind actually works…
that’s where I’d go next. 🤍